I was played by a narcissist.

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I called him out for it when he lied about a “reconciliation “ meeting we had, claiming that we weren’t reconciled. At a further meeting I resigned and he immediately smirked. I pointed that out to the other two men in the room. He then unsuccessfully tried to put on a sad face.

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