Responding to Injury by Bill Elliff
HOW DO YOU RESPOND WHEN OFFENDED?
It happens to all of us. Someone does or says something that hurts. It can be legitimate or illegitimate… true or a little truth laced with lies. Or it could be completely wrong and fully dishonest. Whatever it is that is said or done, it hurts. They may know what they did and even had done it with malice or be completely oblivious.
OUR IMMEDIATE RESPONSE
Anger is the normal response. There is a righteous anger that can be needed at times. But for most of us, that's not our problem. We respond with anger because we're hurt, our "rights" are trampled, we're misunderstood, misrepresented, or marginalized.
The tragedy is that anger accomplishes nothing of value. In fact, it usually drives us to harsh words and reactions, which just stir up further strife. Done often enough, it creates patterns that become a sad part of our character.
THE WISE RESPONSE
Solomon made an observation about how wise men and women respond when...